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The Matrix of Conformity – Top 9 Traps for Today’s Youth

WIKI-Matrix-01Dylan Charles, Editor
Waking Times

More than ever our world needs a new generation of youthful and caring people capable of comprehending the problems we face, while maintaining the clarity of mind and compassion needed to seek and find creative solutions to this morass. For this, our youth need to be healthy, energetic, and free from the myriad traps that our society offers today.

Our young people should be given every opportunity to lead healthy, free, and prosperous lives in our earthly world of abundance, yet the opposite is unfortunately the case in these times, as government grows beyond control, our health is assaulted at every turn, and predatory schemes of all types target us to entrap us in false belief systems and destructive cultural paradigms, such as the wanton materialism and greed that surrounds us.

The broad message to young people nowadays is to conform and submit to norms and phony authority rather than to develop personal integrity, personal liberty and true happiness. Society beckons our youth to imitate others, to compete with others for no end, to pick a team and stay with them till the bitter end, and to neglect the most important virtues in life like spirituality, intellect and compassion.

Leadership for our youth is needed now more than ever, but the wisdom of older generations is rarely coveted as tool for development for the youth. To right this in some degree, here is a comprehensive list of conformity traps for today’s youth, to help them more easily identify some of pitfalls that lie between them and true success and happiness on their journey to maturity.

1. Debt – Debt is the modern form of the slavery of old. The amount of debt in America alone is staggering, and unfortunately the next few younger generations will feel the brunt of this impending disaster. There really is no way for an individual to mitigate the public debt incurred just by being born a US citizen, and right now, each American already owes something between $50,000 and $200,000 to the national debt, depending on how this is calculated. However, personal debt is within the control of the individual and stands as one of the most freedom-limiting and stress-inducing aspects of modern life.

Our predatory lending system deliberately targets young people at an early age to purchase anything and everything with easy credit and credit cards, and there is tremendous peer pressure to live a fabulously materialistic lifestyle. In addition to credit card debt, the amount of debt that young people take on to participate in college is exorbitant, and this system is intrinsically designed to generate heaps of profit for the banking system and the US government, and it unnecessarily saddles young people with life long financial commitments that can weigh them down for decades.

There are many free and affordable options for gaining a higher education nowadays, and with consideration and commitment it is perfectly possible for young people to live an enjoyable life without dependence on credit cards.

2. Materialism and Consumerism – Made possible by access to easy credit and triggered by a predatory marketing infrastructure, one of the greatest conformity traps for young people today is the encouragement to develop a lifestyle centered around the purchasing of goods that people don’t even need to survive. Often, the drive for materialism is born of an encouraged psychological condition that both creates unhappiness while covering up unhappiness. It is a road to nowhere, and the feelings of liberty that come from maintaining fewer material possessions is one of the truest and most attainable forms of liberty today.

Rejecting the consumptive and materialistic patterns that govern modern society is a keen habit to develop so that one can truly discover who they are and what their role is in this world.

3. Addiction to Drugs and Alcohol – Our culture strongly encourages people, especially our youth, to conform to a lifestyle centered around drinking, drug use, and ‘partying.’ While this certainly might be fun to a degree, there is tremendous pressure for young people to assimilate these rituals as lifelong habits, which can shamefully trap a person at an early age, and prohibit opportunities and good health later in life. Furthermore, this is an assault on positive mental and physical health, meaning that over-indulgence early on in life can cause serious health and psychological issues later on. Moderation has become a four letter word in our world, but should be developed at an early age so that one can live in balance with the social pressures we all face.

4. Hyper/Over Sexuality – Primarily a design of the marketing industry which sprang up in the early part of the 20th century as part of a push towards mass-consumerism, our culture is ridiculously overly sexualized and pornographic. Marketers and psychologists realized that sex and sexual images are the number one way to trigger false desires within a person to inspire them to desire needless material objects.

This problem continues to get worse with our insane mainstream media who ceaselessly produces shallow images of lust and hyper-sexuality that chip away at a young person’s self image and esteem, encouraging them to objectify others and allow themselves to be objectified by others. Life shouldn’t be this way, and sex and the human body should be treated with dignity and respect, both qualities that must be nurtured as a person matures to adulthood.

Recognizing the blatant effort to over-sexualize marketing and entertainment at an early age can give someone the opportunity to view these cultural pressures with skepticism and caution, preventing them from getting trap in shallow trap of hyper-sexualization.

5. Mediocrity – We have, sadly, become a nation of the mediocre, and the idea of American ingenuity and exceptionalism has been completely hollowed out. Young people are encouraged to fit in and conform to what others are doing, too often in resulting the over-achievement of the lowest common denominator, which is typically a sincere focus on base desires rather than on the development of virtuous qualities that bring opportunity. Entertainment based living has become the norm and now mediocrity in effort, mediocrity in ambition, and mediocrity in expectation are contributing to severe cultural decline. Human beings are capable of so much and to conform to mediocrity is to miss out discovering one’s true potential in life.

6. Corporate Work Slaves – The education system we have was designed by industrialists and social engineers to produce people who are more suited to be workers than free-thinkers and revolutionaries. More than ever, Westerners live meaningless lives of servitude to corporations, often performing mind-numbing and redundant jobs on an oppressive schedule without ever growing to know what true happiness and fulfillment really is.

Due to the economic stranglehold that a corrupt banking and monetary system has on our society, many people think that the only option they have in life is to get whatever job they can obtain, all too often forgoing self-examination, spiritual cultivation and worldly experience in favor of the false sense of security offered by corporate America. A life of corporate work is not exactly a life of service, and young people should instead be encouraged to set out on a path of self-discovery in search of creative inspiration rather than a mediocre life of commitment to robotic corporate work. The rat race is failing us all while keeping us boxed into the addictive consumer mindset that has dangerous ecological repercussions. Rather than being encouraged to ‘get a job’ people would be better suited to first figure out what they are good at and love, then pursue education and training based on the contribution they’d like to make to the world.

Not all jobs are bad, of course, but the societal design of pushing young people to be part of a frivolous workforce in order to contribute to an overly consumeristic and unhealthy society should be recognized for what it is, a subtle form of slavery.

7. Poor Health & Medical Dependence – The standard American diet and lifestyle breeds stress, disease, unhappiness and dependence on a corrupt health system and pharmaceutical companies to cope. Advertising and marketing are aimed at turning people into unhealthy dependents, but young people should instead be encouraged to care for and strengthen their bodies and minds rather than waste away in sedentary lifestyles consuming toxic poisons instead of real food. Habits are set an early age, and the sooner a person can adopt the habits that breed good health and a positive mental attitude, the happier and more enjoyable their lives will be in the short and long run.

8. Contemporary Consciousness – Human physiology supports amazing potential for consciousness and elevated perspectives. However, and without question, there is a war on consciousness right now that seeks to limit a person’s perception of what life can and should be about. This trap is set by government/corporate propaganda and Draconian laws, is reinforced by the psychological warfare that is mainstream media, and is traditionally looked over by tired religions and aging dogmatic assertions that grant phony authority to anyone who joins an agency or organization that issues fancy uniforms. 

By seizing control of the mind and one’s consciousness, and learning to protect one’s self from unseen negative influences, young people can set themselves on an enlightening path that will forever offer solace and reward, preventing them from becoming prey to the conformist fear-mongering that defines modern Western culture.

9. Social Conformity – By far the most insidious conformist trap that keeps young people from developing to their full potential is the pressure that we as individuals put on each other. Seemingly a natural feature of the human psyche, people fear being different from other people more than anything else. This type of conformity has us policing each other on behalf of organizations that betray us all, and is the primary source of dangerous group-think. In these interesting times, when humankind seems to be determined to snuff itself out with its own stupidity, developing the self-confidence and assuredness to think beyond the box should be our most prized virtue. 


Upon reflection, it is easy to see how all of these traps are all inter-related and part of a broader matrix of conformity that has the Western world locked in self-destructive patterns and harmful cultural traditions. The youth of today are the world of tomorrow, and it is sad to see so many destructive influences clouding their judgement and confusing their worldview at a time when such tremendous positive energy is needed to bring about a major shift in human evolution.

Perhaps pre-consideration of the conformist pitfalls built in today’s society may assist some in steering clear of the traps that so many of us have fallen in.

About the Author

Dylan Charles is a student and teacher of Shaolin Kung Fu, Tai Chi and Qi Gong, a practitioner of Yoga and Taoist esoteric arts, and an activist and idealist passionately engaged in the struggle for a more sustainable and just world for future generations. He is the editor of, the proprietor of, a grateful father and a man who seeks to enlighten others with the power of inspiring information and action. His remarkable journey of self-transformation is a testament to the power of the will and the persistence of the human spirit. He may be contacted at

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  • Floridahank

    Each succeeding generation is getting any chance to use their full potential — they are being dumbed down by our educational, financial, political, governmental systems. They cannot think without an iphone in their hand, never read an uplifting book, spend too much time watching vapid reality, entertainment, soap opera shows, — they’re letting themselves be trapped into a sheeple mentality and they don’t care. Our nation’s days have long past and when the older generations have died, the world will be next to worthless as a whole. Glad I won’t be around then.

  • Mark

    Great Post,



  • Johan Hendrick wrote some fine words..about the issues..but not much about coping mechanisms..and that is what I sought in the replies but there too the suggestions were do we relieve the burdens on the poor..fortunate to be birthed but with so much before them..with so little guidance but video games social media and peers as deeply enslaved as can we guide them when society is intent on misleading them

    in the old days things were got married young had children [mainly raised by mum]..and by retirement age we died of cancer or heart attack..or over prescription of govt subsidized medication..[or rather their adverse reactions..the govt now has carried much further on these young innocents..via vaccination regemes..[designed to make them medically dependant infertile and die before the age even out grand parents did..homeless sick sex;less and in debt

    you mentioned this over sexualisation..but that was yesterdays world order plan..the new one is same sex or males acting like shielas and shielas acting like he men..woman loving woman..or she men..certainly not he men..but yea to conmen and smooth talking spin that was programed into them..

    but enough of the problem..they wont read things..have short attention span..have been taught what to know..not how to find out that they need to know..its sad but how can we even begin to teach them..and teach them what..the desire to know begins and ends with the things the media revealed to them

    at a loss to explain I post but one of the last few links I posted just now at the waking times face book topic

  • Marco

    You wrote baking instead of banking at a certain point. In very much of the beautiful thinking, like this piece, that we read in all media, there is given little space to the subject of the relation between in individuals and politics. It seriously seems that in modern society people have absolute no control of their own government. This is a trap brought on also by articles like this one maybe unwillingly. All talking bad about our own government as if it is not us. Real problem is corporations. That even poison governments. But the more we tell bad of “government” without intelligent criticism, the more we strengthen corporations. Government can be all of us. Corporations are certain of us that might oppress others. Any question?

  • mememine69

    You forgot how today’s youth willingly goose step themselves to the greenhouse house gas ovens like brainwashed Greenzis to the tune of the CO2 Reefer Madness of Climate Blame.

  • I imagine people growing up with this kind of knowledge – we wouldn’t recognize this place anymore. Great article.

  • [ Smiles ] Number six really registered the most for me.

    Great article!

  • dimitri

    Yes! Excellent summation.
    You must be one of the Engaged Parents.
    But I sadly wonder if Pareto’s Law applies here, wherein for every 20% (generously calculated) of engaged and aware parents there are the remaining 80% who are…, well, I can’t quite come up with a compassionate sounding adjective.

    • He he. This made me laugh. 😉


    • Anonymous

      What do you do when your partner is one of the 80%?

      • traci

        since you asked what would you do, i thought i would share some things based on my experience. i would seriously consider a divorce, seperation or educate the partner in various ways, including leading through example.. when you have children, they will emulate you and grow up like you, or unfortunately attract someone into their life with those characteristics you really dont want them to have. i would be honest and state what is going on about the behavior that is probably destructive, self absorbed or immature. dont lie to your children, they will know you are lying and then they will grow up and think those behaviors are okay. this must be done in a neutral, observer mode, not an emotional one, such as anger or fear.

        the constant underminng and conflict is not good for the children to be around. its also very hard to pick up the slack someone else is leaving. its one thing to do this before you have kids, it can be annoying, but its not shaping someone else s life and causing damge to them (except to yourself). better to be more discerning at this point, then after you have children. when you do have children, both people have to be there 125% for the children. they must be the priority. if you love them, really love them, it will not be a problem to do this, but a joy. if you cant commit to this, then dont have children. too many people never grow up and this is why people get divorced after the children come along. it is not fair and it is not acceptable to drop the ball and not step up and commit yourself fully to the precious gift you have been given.

        its time to stop doing things because you should. this means eliminating all destructive people, no matter who they are, from your life, so your kids dont end up exposed to these same influences. our kids cant do better than us if we dont give them an environment that is different and better than the one we were brought up in.

        show real love and respect for yourself and each other, never demand obedience,it isnt necessary and that only teaches fear and repression and in turn, creates the ridiculous police state we have all around us. obedience is the real “education” that carnegie and co. set up for the slave class. if the parents decided not to indoctrinate their children into slavery, and go along with this heinous insidious program, there would be no slave class and humans would be free and happy for the first time ever.

        this is a wonderful time and opportunity to re live your own childhood, so to speak, and do things differently now that you have a different perspective. this is not easy for most to do, because they dont want to deal with the wounds from their past,but as bruce lee said, the demons of the father shall be passed onto the son. this means, if you dont deal with the trauma and garbage you have swept under the collective rug, you will pass these on to your children. every generation passes on a heavier burden to the next and no evolution can ever hope to occur. the whole point of this is to give your kids a better opportunity than you were given, so you can create a true legacy of love that will live on forever.

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