Disconnect Between Natural Parenting Skills and Health Officials Harming Children’s Development

January 8, 2013 | By | 5 Replies More

April McCarthy, Prevent Disease
Waking Times

Our society has officially produced a generation of parents which retard the growth of children in more ways than one. A child’s healthy brain and emotional development are being hindered by social practices and cultural beliefs of modern life, according to an interdisciplinary body of research presented recently at a symposium at the University of Notre Dame.

“Life outcomes for American youth are worsening, especially in comparison to 50 years ago,” says Darcia Narvaez, Notre Dame professor of psychology who specializes in moral development in children and how early life experiences can influence brain development.

“Ill-advised practices and beliefs have become commonplace in our culture, such as the use of infant formula, the isolation of infants in their own rooms or the belief that responding too quickly to a fussing baby will ‘spoil’ it,” Narvaez says.

Dr. Eileen Montgomery, Naturopathic Physician and child health specialist concurs with the assessments and conclusions of the interdisciplinary research. “This generation of parents believe that vaccines, with all their toxic excipients and preservatives, are more beneficial for a child’s health than their mother’s breast milk,” she stated.

This new research links certain early, nurturing parenting practices — the kind common in foraging hunter-gatherer societies — to specific, healthy emotional outcomes in adulthood, and has many experts rethinking some of our modern, cultural childrearing “norms.”

“Breastfeeding infants, responsiveness to crying, almost constant touch and having multiple adult caregivers are some of the nurturing ancestral parenting practices that are shown to positively impact the developing brain, which not only shapes personality, but also helps physical health and moral development,” says Narvaez.

In 2011, the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel (MJS), launched a shocking misinformation campaign to advise all fathers and mothers that they need not listen to their parental instincts when it comes to sleeping with their babies. Instead, these instincts should be ignored and replaced with illogical, unproven and unscientific claims regarding sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) and that co-sleeping “can be just as dangerous” for your infant as them sleeping with knives.

“Public officials routinely assert their influence over the greater wisdom of parents whose natural instincts in caring for children is somehow misplaced and misguided in their view” said Montgomery. “It’s baffling how there is a fundamental disconnect between natural parenting skills and health officials…it is deeply distorted.”

Studies show that responding to a baby’s needs (not letting a baby “cry it out”) has been shown to influence the development of conscience; positive touch affects stress reactivity, impulse control and empathy; free play in nature influences social capacities and aggression, and a set of supportive caregivers (beyond mother alone) predicts IQ and ego resilience as well as empathy.

The heartbeats of a mother and her unborn fetus synchronize when she breathes rhythmically. Researchers also found that a new born baby may benefit tremendously by co-sleeping with the mother to help time respiratory gas exchanges.

Mothers aren’t the only ones who are biologically adapted to respond to children. Other research from the University of Notre Dame showed that dads who sleep near their children experience a drop in testosterone. Previous research from humans and other species suggests this decrease might make men more responsive to their children’s needs and help them focus on the demands of parenthood.

The United States has been on a downward trajectory on all of these care characteristics, according to Narvaez. Instead of being held, infants spend much more time in carriers, car seats and strollers than they did in the past. Only about 15 percent of mothers are breastfeeding at all by 12 months, extended families are broken up and free play allowed by parents has decreased dramatically since 1970.

Whether the corollary to these modern practices or the result of other forces, research shows an epidemic of anxiety and depression among all age groups, including young children; rising rates of aggressive behavior and delinquency in young children; and decreasing empathy, the backbone of compassionate, moral behavior, among college students.

According to Narvaez, however, other relatives and teachers also can have a beneficial impact when a child feels safe in their presence. Also, early deficits can be made up later, she says.

“The right brain, which governs much of our self-regulation, creativity and empathy, can grow throughout life. The right brain grows though full-body experience like rough-and-tumble play, dancing or freelance artistic creation. So at any point, a parent can take up a creative activity with a child and they can grow together.”

It’s time for parents to ignore the advice of health officials, physicians or any other person who opposes the natural care-giving instincts hard-wired into every mother and father. Love knows best so ignore the rest.

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April McCarthy is a community journalist playing an active role reporting and analyzing world events to advance our health and eco-friendly initiatives.

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  1. Rampaging Manatee says:

    It shocks and amazes me that so many otherwise intelligent people trust vaccine corporations to act on behalf of our best interests.

  2. Thank you says:

    Your title says it all.

  3. Roger says:

    If you read David Icke you would know that that this has all been planned a long time ago by our elites. This is the plan for Big Medicine to help bring about a “Brave New World” a la Aldous Huxley.

  4. Chloe says:

    ‘The Continuum Concept’ by Jean Liedloff is a fantastic book, which details the benefits of co-sleeping with babies/young children, and the benefits of cuddling babies. (In fact, that’s come back a bit – premature babies are given ‘kangaroo care’ – skin to skin contact.) In countries where co-sleeping is practised – such as Japan – cot death was almost non existent.

    We’re now in a society where breast feeding in public is frowned upon; whereas newsagents’ shelves are filled with pornographic magazines, and young teenagers can access hard core porn online (in fact, so can younger children by accident, if the comp. controls aren’t on.)

    We put babies alone in a cot in the dark, with plastic toys, not their mother’s softness and warmth, for comfort – and then wonder at the rise in materialism(!) It’s more than time we remembered, when it come to child rearing – we’re mammals raising mammals! And we’re human! Co-sleeping’s been proved to promote a fantastic bond between parents and child. And it helps breastfeeding. Putting a small baby alone in a cot in another room is insane, when you think about it. We’ve just been culturally conditioned NOT to think about it …

    Attempted state control over children does seem to be growing. Babies/young children in daycare – when it’s all day, these nurseries are like orphanages. And schools are now opening earlier and closing later. It’s all getting more and more robotic – with the inevitable human stress around it – which is worrying in the extreme. All part, perhaps, of a ‘Big Brother’ society – lose control of your children to the state all being part of the idea of a ‘human collective’ slaving for the corporations; instead of a collection of individuals living together in love and connection, with independence from those who want control over as much as they can.

    Parents need all the help and support they can get to trust themselves; not a barrage of rules and regulations.

    Finally: good article(!) It raises a lot of points greatly in need of addressing. I’d only disagree with the ‘multiple caregivers’ part. More depends on the quality of the interaction. Obviously, the more loving people a child has in its life the better; but it’s the quality of the interaction that matters. Having said that, a loving extended family is one of the greatest gifts life has to offer … and it’s been under attack for decades. The ‘nuclear’ family can be a hotbed of toxic stress – every parent also needs a loving extended family! Along with support and help in parenting if asked for. Esp. if it’s your first, and esp. in these days when kids don’t learn it from their parents/grandparents the way they used to! (Daycare, long school hours, etc.) And the many, many ways parent can be pressured into trying for ‘perfection’, and missing so much of the joys/rewards of parenthood along the way.

  5. bev says:

    i have two children, i breastfeed my eldest until 2years and also co-slept and am doing the same with my youngest. i have never ever had a problem and it does feel so natural to do, we don’t have a health visitor any more as i felt she wasn’t helpful in any way. i feel that the connection between me and my children is stronger because of the decisions i have made in not listening to anyone else and to listening to my instincts!

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